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Who am I to Judge!

By : Juhi Bansal

I don’t care about your food habits,

I don’t care about your sexual preferences,

I don’t care about the colour of your skin, your size, the language you speak or where you live,

I don’t care whether you are married or not, whether you have kids or not or how you decide to bring them up,

I don’t care whether you celebrate certain occasions (even if they are not a part of your “culture” and ignore ones which are),

I don’t care about how you choose to live your life. And I hope you don’t mind how I live mine. But, if you do- please keep your opinions to yourself, because I don’t care.

Say it aloud people- WHO AM I TO Judge and all will be well with the world.

 

I love my heels, I really do. More so with skirts. But, I also love to break my own rules every now and then. Especially when the pair in question is as cute looking at this!

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Separates: Stalk Buy Love
Shoes: Closet-37
Pink Watch: Nautica
Bag: Singapore
Ear-rings: Eesha Zaveri Jewelry
Cat Eyed Sunglasses: AND

 

The pair was sent by the awesome people at Closet-37 and is currently my first pick whenever I am stepping out. It is soft, comfy and très chic! Do check out some of the other shoes at Closet- 37.

The separates are from Stalk Buy Love. Shop  co-ordinates from their collection here.

The silk embroidered bag was a gift from my sister in law.

accessories

Ear-rings by Eesha Zaveri from probably her first collection!

Ear-rings by Eesha Zaveri from probably one of her first collections!

a closer look at the gorg pair!

a closer look at the gorg pair!

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sitting

 

Did you like it? Do write in! And yes just to re-iterate – “to each his own”…live and let live!

Credits:

Separates: Stalk Buy Love (Buy)

Got the look Ballerinas: Closet 37 (Buy)

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6 Comments

  • Reply Nidhi Upadhyay March 30, 2015 at 7:17 am

    I should write this from anonymous account because being your sil I will be judged wrongly…
    Now if you don’t care about what I wear- how will you buy things which I like? If u don’t care what I eat – how will u know what’s my fav and like wise for loving me u need to care about me and others around u . Being indifferent to likes and dislikes of people around u won’t make this world a better place to live, accepting them and establishing a tandem with their likes and dislikes will ( my thought)
    Isn’t judging the first step to picking friends, I guess judging is not the key.. Imposing them to think like you or behave like you is the cause of all mayhem.. You still judge them on parameters of your likes and dislike and then let them be, unless it’s harming the tandem in ur relation ..
    Juhi , You looking super hot in the pics just thought something not right with I don’t care thingy
    Also on a separate note don’t show it to Iyra… This post is going to be a deadly blow .. Because you will care for everything she will do like uncle cares for u and u care for Sparsh!!

  • Reply Juhi Bansal March 30, 2015 at 7:59 am

    haha Nidhi di thanks for your honest comment. Guess I was misunderstood…I didn’t mean I don’t care for these things when it comes to people, especially people close to me….I just meant I don’t care about these things enough so as to form opinions about you or expect you to follow what majority of the world thinks is right. By you I mean the world at large. This is just food for thought for all judgmental people around…(including me at times). I’ve lived a life full of people with strong opinions and sometimes their opinions have hurt my plans. So, this is my way of letting people know- I don’t care anymore even if you judge me. Believe me I’ve lived a much happier life since I started following this. Again- this is not for people close to me just random world at large who judge the Uber rape victim because she fell asleep or Anushka Sharma because Virat Kohli lost the match. If I can bring Iyra up with this emotion, if she can grow up in a world where she is not judged, my job would be done.

  • Reply Juhi Bansal March 30, 2015 at 8:07 am

    I just went back and read the article again :)….spoke food habits because of the ruckus in India around the #beefban

  • Reply Juhi Bansal March 30, 2015 at 8:08 am

    *about

  • Reply Nidhi Upadhyay March 30, 2015 at 8:19 am

    Juhi Bansal I know that u care and that’s what surprised me .. People will not stop judging, all that matters is how much do u want to change and for whom… Yes do teach Iyra to pursue her happiness but also teach her to let go few things for the loved ones the way we all do.. That’s is the beauty of love!!
    Strength is to listen to all and do what u want and believe, if you know you are Doing the right thing .. Their opinions won’t matter, we look for approval and disapproval only when we are not sure from within!! If u can teach Iyra to believe in herself and rest will be struggles of living in society which can be eradicated with the society only..

  • Reply Nidhi Upadhyay March 30, 2015 at 8:21 am

    And yes I hate the pseudo feminism and pseudo religion that keeps taking waves in media!

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